When you meet Tarnissha “Moe” Sass, you don’t just hear her words—you feel them. She brings energy, honesty, and deep compassion into every space she enters. Known as a Vision Strategist Coach for Women, Moe helps high-achieving women create lives that feel purposeful and aligned. But her wisdom isn’t theoretical. It comes from lived experience—navigating fitness, motherhood, corporate life, loss, healing, and reinvention.

Her journey is proof that your story, no matter how messy, can become your superpower. In her AAAI interview, Moe opened up about the lessons that shaped her and now shape the women she coaches. These aren’t abstract ideas—they’re truths born out of resilience, faith, and learning to stand firm in her own worth.

Here are five powerful insights from Moe Sass’s story that every woman—and every fitness professional—can take to heart.

1. Honor Your “Why”

When Moe talks about her grandmother, her whole face lights up. Her grandmother prayed for her, believed in her, and became the foundation of her “why.”

“I never want to forget about all the things that she prayed for me to get me to where I am today.”

That “why” isn’t just sentimental—it’s a daily motivator. When Moe faces challenges, she remembers that her success is part of a bigger story, one built on the sacrifices and prayers of the women who came before her.

For all of us, this is the invitation: pause and ask, What’s my why? Who am I doing this for? That answer can fuel you on the hard days, keeping you grounded and focused when you’re tempted to quit.

2. Get Your Vision Straight

According to Moe, the biggest obstacle standing between women and fulfillment isn’t lack of talent, resources, or opportunity—it’s lack of clarity.

“If we just get the vision straight, then guess what? You’ll know what direction you’re headed in. You’ll be in alignment. And when we’re in alignment, we’re fulfilled.”

Too often, women chase every opportunity, saying yes to everything, but feeling empty. Moe reminds us that a clear vision acts like a compass. When you know where you’re going, you stop wasting time on distractions and start making decisions that truly serve you.

In her coaching, Moe helps women step back from the noise and craft a vision that excites them. Once the vision is clear, the pieces fall into place—the career path, the relationships, the habits. Everything becomes easier because it’s all connected to a bigger picture.

3. Replace “Have To” with “Get To”

Life as a woman often feels like a never-ending to-do list: work, family, fitness, caregiving, and everything in between. Moe sees this all the time with her clients. The language they use is heavy with obligation: I have to do this. I have to get that done. I have to keep pushing.

Her response? Shift the perspective.

“When we operate out of ‘I have to,’ we forget that we get to. We forget that we can choose to. And we really forget that we’re blessed to.”

That mindset shift changes everything. Suddenly, going to the gym isn’t a burden—it’s a privilege. Spending time with your family isn’t just another responsibility—it’s a gift. Even difficult tasks can be reframed as opportunities for growth.

Moe challenges women to stop living on autopilot and start seeing their daily routines as blessings they get to experience.

4. Move Trauma Out of Your Body

One of the most powerful parts of Moe’s story is how she connected fitness and healing. After experiencing personal tragedy, she discovered that unprocessed trauma wasn’t just an emotional weight—it was stuck in her body.

As a AAAI-certified yoga instructor, she began to understand that movement isn’t just about strength or flexibility—it’s about release.

“Trauma gets stuck in our bodies…when you move your body, that stagnant energy moves out so something new can come in.”

Whether it’s yoga, dance, or strength training, movement became a tool for Moe to process pain and invite in renewal. She now teaches her clients the same truth: exercise isn’t just about looking better; it’s about feeling free.

This perspective is especially powerful for fitness professionals. It’s a reminder that our work isn’t only about physical transformation. It’s about creating safe spaces where people can heal, breathe, and reclaim their bodies.

5. Don’t Wait for Permission

Moe sees a recurring pattern in the women she coaches: they’re doing all the “right things.” They’re going to therapy, attending seminars, even hiring coaches. But despite all this effort, they still feel unfulfilled.

The reason? They’re waiting for someone else to validate them.

“They’re doing all the things—therapy, coaching, seminars—and they don’t understand why they’re still unfulfilled. It’s because they’re still waiting for permission.”

Moe’s message is simple but bold: stop waiting for permission. You don’t need anyone else’s approval to live your vision. You don’t have to earn the right to be happy, or strong, or successful. The power is already in your hands.

Her story is proof of this. From being a teen mom on welfare to becoming a sought-after coach, Moe never waited for the world to tell her she was ready. She gave herself permission to step into her purpose—and now she helps other women do the same.

The Heart of Moe’s Message

At the end of the day, Moe’s warmth comes from more than her words. It’s in the way she makes you believe that change is possible. Her story is one of resilience, authenticity, and faith—but also of practical tools that anyone can use.

She teaches that your “why” will ground you. Your vision will guide you. Your mindset will transform your day-to-day. Your body can release what your heart has carried too long. And your permission slip? You write it yourself.

Moe Sass’s journey—from teen motherhood, to loss, to corporate life, to becoming a thriving Vision Strategist Coach—is a testament to the power of faith, movement, and clarity. She embodies what it means to take pain and turn it into purpose.

👉 Want to hear Moe’s full story in her own words? Watch the AAAI interview and be inspired by her warmth, wisdom, and truth.

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